The holiday season is notorious for being the most stressful time of the year. In addition to the demands of regular life, we have shopping, wrapping, decorating, cooking, school plays, parties, menu planning, in-laws… and did I mention it’s the most stressful time of the year?
Unfortunately, a stressful holiday is simply not enjoyable. If you’ve ever been there (and honestly, who hasn’t?), you’re familiar with that silent promise: next year, I’ll do it differently.
Aside from renting a remote cabin, there’s only one way to ensure a low-stress holiday season: have a strategy in place to keep it all manageable. Here are five easy ways to minimize the stress of the holiday season:
Strategy #1: Do what you love and delegate the rest - Time is short. Don’t waste it on drudgery! If you don’t have the heart to put the tree up, don’t put the tree up. A beautiful bouquet or a candle arrangement can spread just as much cheer. Ask others to help you get things done; the neighbor’s teenage daughter would probably love to wrap your gifts for a very reasonable fee. You don’t need to do it all yourself. The key is to get organized ahead of time… plan to ask for help.
Strategy #2: Shop online – As much as possible, avoid the long lines at the post office, shopping malls, even grocery stores. Not only is online shopping faster and easier, but you can completely avoid the traffic and crowds that just take all the fun out of the holiday season. If you can, order several gifts from the same company, and make use of the gift wrap option when you check out. For those hard-to-buy-for people on your list, here are some suggestions: wine (maybe a wine-of-the-month club); gift baskets of foods, desserts, or personality-related themes; magazine subscriptions such as National Geographic; tickets to an event such as a concert or live performance; flowers; books; gourmet foods; and restaurant gift certificates.
Strategy #3: Stick with your exercise routine – When we get busy, it’s often the first thing to go. But exercise is absolutely critical to stress management! Now more than ever, you need those feel-good hormones and all the extra oxygen, so make a commitment before the winter crush that you’ll always make time for at least a few minutes of exercise every day. Come January (and those New Year’s resolutions), you’ll be glad you did.
Strategy #4: Get Creative! - Whether you get the urge to build a snowman or decorate a cookie, let yourself play a little. Arrange some flowers, paint a greeting card, whatever calls you. Your enthusiasm for life will get a boost and your tension will just evaporate.
Strategy #5: Make time to enjoy the season – The best stress-management strategies in the world aren’t worth a snowflake unless you slow down enough to savor the season in quiet peaceful ways, like taking a walk to enjoy the Christmas lights and listening to Christmas music in front of the fire. Make time to just sit, and breathe, and just be… and enjoy!
Margaret Page, founder of Beyond the Page Coaching Ltd., is passionate about helping successful professionals achieve their highest vision of success. With over 30 years as an entrepreneur and business leader, Margaret has helped countless professionals find focus, build efficiency, and eliminate overwhelm. Guided by her personal mission to inspire, encourage and motivate, she empowers people with the resources, tools and understanding they need to achieve extraordinary results in record time. As the head of Etiquette Page Enterprises, Margaret is also a recognized expert in business etiquette and international protocol. As a dynamic trainer, Margaret conducts inspiring programs and private consultations, with customized sessions that address each person’s individual needs.For information about Margaret’s coaching program, or to sign up for her newsletter, “A Page of Insight,” please visit her online.
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